Alzheimer’s gradually changes what someone can do independently, but it does not take away their right to dignity. In home care, preserving both dignity and independence is central to quality support. At SilverStars Care, we see daily how these values transform the experience of living with dementia.
Why independence matters
Even as abilities decline, most people want to remain as independent as possible. Independence builds self-esteem and contributes to mental health. For someone with Alzheimer’s, being able to dress themselves, prepare a light meal, or water plants in the garden can make them feel valued and capable.
Stripping away independence too quickly, even with good intentions, can leave people feeling powerless. That is why carers must carefully balance support with autonomy.
Small tasks, big impact
Supporting independence often means slowing down. Helping someone dress themselves may take longer than dressing them outright, but the sense of achievement it provides is invaluable. Encouraging a person to make a cup of tea, fold laundry, or choose their own outfit promotes confidence and engagement.
Even when tasks cannot be completed fully, participation matters. The act of stirring a bowl, folding napkins, or setting the table connects people to meaningful routines and reinforces their role in the household.
Preserving dignity through respect
Dignity is about more than independence; it’s about how care is delivered. Carers must approach every interaction with respect. Explaining what is happening before assisting with personal care, maintaining privacy, and using a person’s preferred name are small gestures that carry great weight.
Alzheimer’s can affect communication, but respect is always understood. A gentle tone, patience, and attentiveness remind the person that they are valued as an individual, not defined by their diagnosis.
Supporting families to uphold dignity
Families often struggle with this balance. Out of love, they want to help, but sometimes too much help can unintentionally diminish independence. We encourage relatives to allow their loved ones to do what they still can, even if it takes extra time or isn’t done “perfectly.”
We also provide training on how to maintain dignity during sensitive tasks. Something as simple as offering a towel for cover during personal care or respecting someone’s routine can make the experience less distressing for everyone involved.
A holistic approach
Maintaining dignity and independence requires a holistic approach that sees beyond medical needs. It is about emotional wellbeing, social connection, and identity. Whether through reminiscing over old photographs, singing along to favourite music, or supporting someone to engage in hobbies, carers play a role in keeping the spirit of the individual alive.
At SilverStars Care, we often remind families that Alzheimer’s changes capacity, but it never removes humanity. By preserving dignity and independence, even in small ways, we give people living with dementia the respect they deserve and the quality of life they are entitled to.